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September 3, 2010 at 5:57 pm | read more

Open Question: How complicated is the actual use of HDTVs?

I live in a very rural area and cannot receive over-the-air TV (per tvfool.com) and I can only afford the cheapest basic cable (landlady won't allow dishes). This basic cable DOES have some free HD stations (primarily local network TV). Since I need a new TV anyway I am considering an HDTV. The thing is it just seems like such a hassle--it's not like the “old” days when you could just go and receive a TV, plug it in and go; now you have to KNOW things and do plenty of research beforehand. I am not a techie but I understand resolution, size, and frame speed, and such, but the more banal questions regarding every day use of an HDTV elude me and I'm hoping y'every can help me out. Question 1: If I switch from an HD channel immediately to an SD channel, do I have to change the resolution manually each time I switch between an HD and an SD channel or do HDTVs adjust resolution automatically? Question 2: What is the resolution of standard DVDs? I hit the local Red Box regularly and much of my TV-watching is rented DVDs. Will they be displayed properly on an HDTV? Will I have to manually change the setup for viewing DVDs and then back to SD/HD each time? Question 2a: Do I need a new DVD player to display DVDs properly? I also possess several old DVDs that I don't plan on replacing with Blu-Ray (yet). These old DVDs work just fine on the old boxy SDTVs with my ancient pre-HDTV DVD player, but do I need a new DVD player capable of displaying them on an HDTV? Ditto VHS. Question 3: If I wanted to stream Netflix to the HDTV, would I need a TV with internet access, or could I just connect my laptop to the TV and stream it from the internet through the pc? Question 4: I've heard that HDCP compliance has caused nightmares for some folks trying to hook their pc up to their HDTV. My laptop is not HDCP compliant (I don't think). Does this mean I cannot view video from my pc (whether Netflix, YouTube, Veoh, other downloads, or even home movies) on the HDTV using an HDMI cable? If, per chance, my pc IS HDCP compliant, could that be a problem viewing video on an HDTV? Question 5: If I CAN watch video from my pc on my HDTV, do I need a TV with 1080 resolution? I'm not a sportsfan or much of a gamer, and don't plan on buying a Blu-Ray setup soon, so I really don't feel compelled to go for 1080 unless viewing from my pc, Netflix, or old DVD player calls for it. My laptop's resolution is 1366x768 so I am concerned that a TV resolution of 720p is not gonna clip it. Might I have to change my laptop's settings to a lower resolution to accommodate the lower resolution of the TV? Question 6: What is the average lifespan of HDTVs? Every review of every make and model I've seen links to several dissatisfied consumers who had their TV fail after only a year or two of use. I realize that's a LOT of technology to fit in a tiny and (in my case) cheap package so I don't expect it to last as long as my old CRTs did (I still have a tiny SHARP TV from 1984 that works—but has no 'modern' hookups). Is it reasonable to expect a short enough life expectancy to warrant an extended warranty? I think that's it. My sister had a new HDTV for every of two days. She found both DVD playback and SD reception to be very blurry. She also couldn't receive her pc to connect to the TV. If those are inherent problems with HD technology, I think I might just try and find an old SD TV and make do. Thanks!

September 3, 2010 at 5:52 pm | read more

Open Question: Can my employer appeal the judge's decision in my unemployment case?

A few months ago, I posted a question about having to go through the appeal process. I was advised to retain a lawyer who specialized in unemployment cases, so I did. quick forward to today. I had my hearing and my ex employer didn't even show up. The judge went through the case anyway. The whole appeal was based on the fact that my employer said I was fired for excessive use of company email. The dates that the emails were sent weren't even days that I was at work. The judge found that I sent those emails to a co worker from home, from my personal blackberry. My lawyer said the case was pretty much dismissed because the ex employer never showed up and also because the dates that they said I was being negligent of my work weren't even my regular work days. I wanted to know if my ex employer can appeal the judge's decision, even if they weren't there. IMHO, they didn't show up because their claim was BS and they knew it.

September 3, 2010 at 5:46 pm | read more

Open Question: Is Robert Allens multiple streams of income program a scam?

I would adore to try this program and everyone seems to be praising this guys program with positive results and feedback saying that it does work and you do make loads of money in such little time every from home. Have you or anyone you know tried this mans program so you can tell me if it works or is a scam? I really want to buy it and try it but I need to be sure before I spend the money. thanks for those of you that say it is a scam- have you tried the program? and also- how do you know it is a scam?

September 3, 2010 at 5:44 pm | read more

Open Question: HOW TO GET MY BOYFRIEND TO HELP OUT WITH OUR 11 MONTH OLD DAUGHTER?

oK SO MY BOYFRIEND OF 2 YEARS ALREADY HAS 2 KIDS FROM ANOTHER lady.(WE receive THEM EVERY OTHER WEEK.) WE HAVE AN 11 MONTH OLD DAUGHTER. I AM CURRENTLY A STAY AT HOME MOM AND STAY HOME WITH OUR DAUGHTER AND HIS KIDS WHEN WE HAVE THEM. I HAVE OUR DAUGHTER LITERALLY every THE TIME, FROM THE TIME SHE receive UP TIL SHE GOES TO BED. HE WORKS 6 DAYS A WEEK FROM 7A TO 3P. I HAVE TRIED NOT TO ASK HIM TO HELP VERY MUCH BECAUSE HE DOES WORK SO MUCH. HOWEVER, HE ALSO PLAYS SOFTBALL 3 NIGHTS A WEEK AND HAS PRACTICE ON SUNDAYS. SO WE ARE ALMOST NEVER HOME. I KNOW THAT HIM PLAYING BALL IS HIS BREAK AND KEEPS HIM FROM GOING CRAZY..... BUT IN TURN I AM! AND I NEVER receive A BREAK. SHEWILL EVEN SIT ON THE FLOOR IN THE BATHROOM AND WAIT FOR ME TO receive OUT OF THE SHOWER. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO!!!! HE DOES ASK IF I CARE ABOUT HIM PLAYING AND I ALWAYS TELL HIM "NO, I DONT CARE." BECAUSE I FEEL IF I SAY YES I WILL FEEL GUILTY. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO, I FEEL LIKE I AM RAISING HER BY MYSELF. I TAKE CARE OF HER every THE TIME, CLEAN THE home, DO LAUNDRY, HELP WITH HIS KIDS (BATHS, HOMEWORK, AND GETTING THEM READY FOR SCHOOL) AND COOK AND DO THE DISHES. I JUST WANNA FIND ADVICE WITH TRYING TO receive HIM TO HELP WITH OUR KID. I MEAN ON THE NIGHTS THAT HE DOESNT HAVE BALL HE COMES HOME AND SITS AT THE COMPUTER UNTIL BED TIME, EVEN THROUGH DINNER. I'M SO STRESSED SOMEONE HELP!!!!!!!!!

September 3, 2010 at 5:31 pm | read more

Open Question: Can you help with everything I'd need to know when switching from an American school system to the UK school?

Here's the deal I hate my life as is and I'm simply sleepy of waiting around for something to happen to me. Since my family simply doesn't want to move, I thought of boarding school which guide me to boarding school in England. On my pail list I have live in England for a year, and that would be crossed off it I went to school there, plus I'd receive away from this place I hate while my family could stay here. Obviously I'd miss my family a lot but I've lost every my friends {because I've moved seven times before} and the ones I've made here sadly aren't much different so I wouldn't miss them much. For some reason listening to British accents calms me down and I adore the rain, as far as I know it rains a ton in England. My parents also worry about how shy I am, if they aren't there I'd have to take charge for myself but I'd also have to live below the schools watch and I'm not sure how strict that is, plus I've never had to share a room with anyone before. And that's the basics. I've been told that because I'm an 11th grader in America I'd be a fifth form/ lower sixth/ year 12 in England so how many total years of school would I have left? In America I'd finish this grade go to 12th grade and then hit about 4 years of college, so five years in total. Legally how could/ would I stay there? Neither of my parents would arrive with me and I know no one in England, I have family in Germany and that's the closest even as friends. Would I have to fill out legal papers for that, if so what? Could I even stay there for a full school year, because somewhere I read I could only stay for six months? How old to you have to be to steer there? And how old to work? Chances are I'd have to work. Financially why is it so expensive to go to school in England, for me in America it's free 'til I hit college, then again I go to public school. Would my family be able to receive assistance with paying for school, like a scholarship? Do a lot of British people even go to British boarding schools or is it every people from separate countries? Any tips or concerns you have for a teenage girl leaving home to go to school in a place literally foreign to her? Do you think I should go? Any boarding school suggestions? Thank you so much, almost anything will be helpful

September 3, 2010 at 5:28 pm | read more

Open Question: interested in me or just being nice to me? 10 points for best answer?

Last friday I went to a football game with my brother-in-law cousin (not blood related). we drank some beer at the game and every, anyway after the game her aunt was picking us up since we couldnt steer home i had my arm around her shoulder at that time. My brother in law cousin works at a bar so she asked me if i wanted to go chill with her there and drinks ome more (after every free drinks for me). As time passed I was talking to some old friends i saw there and my brother in law cousin name is mindy so mindy sat next to me at the bar saying i been looking everywhere for you matt (My name). we sat next to each other she every now and then touched my arm when we were talking and i put my hand on ehr knee and she didnt move it, a few minutes later we danced every i remember is that she was grinding on me and i had my arms around her at the same time. As time passed i was wasted lol so mindy bought me back to my brother in law home since i was staying there for the night. we pulled up and i couldnt make it up the stairs so she helped me and helped me receive my pants off ( not the sexual way) i laid down on the sofa and i asked her to arrive by me and she said she had to go back bc she got asked to work so i waved my arm for her to arrive by and she did and she said thank you for coming to the game with her and i gave her a hug and a kiss on the cheek. Last night I went out with her again to the bar and this time i drove as we were walking to my truck I put my arm around her shoulder then i moved it down to her waist and she didnt say or do anything. I slept by her place on the sofa and her in her room but before we went to bed she said the tv remote is here you can watch whatever and i said i cant bc your but is in my way and i gave it a light slap and i said laughing what that a jiggle? and she laughed (we were a lil tipsy). She is the type of girl who goes out to the bars almost everynight and sees her friends guys and girls and they kiss her on the cheek so i dont think she is the shy type. I dont want sex right now bc i like to take things slow but I really want to kiss her or her to just lay a kiss on me. Im shy so what would be the best way to receive a kiss from her??? or does she even seem interested in me in anyway???? I would adore a kiss from her why doesnt she kiss me if she is interested? bc she hasnt i think that she isnt interested in me liek that so idk what to think. beacuse i think that she is just being nice to me and is afraid to let me know and make me feel down. she doesnt receive drunk easy so she was sober

September 3, 2010 at 5:27 pm | read more

Open Question: Insurance questions for fire Insurance claim?

I am helping my pal expedite a flame insurance claim on her home which sustained flame damage about two years ago. She is trying to receive her claim resolved to have repairs made to her home - However- according to a supervisor who works for the insurance company, there was an adjuster sent out to the property when the flame took place who stated that the replacement cost would be $47,000 with a $20,000 recoverable depreciation amount...So total would be $67,000 available for repairs based on the adjusters numbers. Several contractors have been sent out to the property who say that the damage sustained by the flame would be well over $100K in labor and materials to repair the property for the flame damage, The issue we are having is that the insurance company is saying that she had 180 days to dispute the claim made by the adjuster, but within that time frame the homeowner has been in the hospital fighting kidney failure and was unaware of the window she was given to respond to the insurance company. Since the flame incident took place in 2008 the insurance company is saying that additional ware and tare has probably taken its toll on the property in terms of water damage from rain, wind, etc. First off I find that argument to be irrelevant due to the fact that common sense tells me that water is used to put the flame out to start with so water damage would have been sustained regardless. Plus even the contractors say that the whole home would practically need to be replaced due to the flame and it would also need to be updated according to gift day codes since the property is so old. Is there anything that can be done so she can so she can receive the full amount needed to restore her home? The person who is handling her claim is making it close impossible to receive even the simplest of questions answered. Also, the homeowner is due back in the hospital soon for more medical treatment and she wants to receive this resolved as soon as possible. Any help or advice with this would be greatly appreciated. I forgot to mention the is a California claim

September 3, 2010 at 5:25 pm | read more

Open Question: I HATE my life! what should i do?

OK first off i would like to say i HATE my life. It seems everyone is against me! Everyday I dread getting up just because i have to deal with my family. I am 11 also. So anyways i hate my life because i just dont fit in. My sister is mean to me every the time and when my parents are around she acts every innocent. this is more then sibling rivalry around a year ago she made me sob everyday and called me a baby and would hurt me if i did. She offers me stuff to do her chores for her and if i dont she blackmails me or calls me a piece of crap or a fat pig. My other sister is really the only one i can relate to SOME of the time. 75% of the time she is also mean saying she is "better" then me and says how i'm lonely and she has a million friends. My mom just simply hates me. She always talks to my two other sisters and when i try to talk to her she is like "receive out i'm busy" My 3 little brothers are just brats. They receive into my stuff. they mess up my room. and call me names. My 4 older brothers are never home they are at college accept for my oldest brother who butts into everything and hurts people when my parents aren't around. He speeds too. I tell my parents and they dont do anything. They dont believe me. And when he hurts me i call him fatso or something And I receive in trouble yet they dont yell at him. They favor him. My dad could care less about me. He also only talks to my sisters and not me. I got in a verbal battle with him last week and i told him I hate him and every of that and he just was like "look ya!" cause i was going upstairs crying about how i hate my life. I have told them how i feel several times and even ran away one time and they still care less about me. They HATE me! I am home schooled with my 3 younger brothers while my 2 sisters are public schooled and go to high school. But by the time they receive home they are nothing but mean to me. I go online and watch TV to only she how perfect kids lives are and how crappy mine is. I sometimes wish I was born into a different family. I pray to god that my life will receive better but it doesn't. My life is terrible. I havent done anything to deserve this. every day I sit at the computer feeling sorry for myself. I am not goth or anything like that either. I dont have any friends my mom doesn't let me even go into my backyard without asking. but lets my brother who is younger then me. So she doesn't do that for safety concerns she just does it to be mean. While people are out having a wonderful time with their family and friends and people who actually care about them i am sitting at my computer playing "millsberry" "toontown" and "yahoo answers" every day. Sometimes i wish i was never born. What is wrong with my family? Or is it just me? My life stunk from as far back as i could remember. And dont tell me to "tell them how i feel" Cause like i said i have and never worked they could care less about me as long as I'm working or silent. In their eyes i cant never not once be perfect.

September 3, 2010 at 5:16 pm | read more

Open Question: Would this suffice for a dependency override letter?

To Whom It May Concern: My name is _____and I write this letter in hopes to override my dependency status. Most of my life I have been independent, for a time I lived with my mom, _______, but it never felt like she tried to lift me. Throughout the course of the time I lived with her, I supported myself since I was Fourteen; I bought my possess food, possess clothes, and helped with rent. My mom was in a constant state of depression since I can remember. We lived in ____ and since we have moved down here in 1990 she had been a nurse at __________. Some nights she would arrive home and tell me that she had thought about driving the car off of the bridge, or that she wanted to run away, or just sob without saying anything at every. Last year, May 2009, she finally ran away to Florida in order to receive a fresh start, leaving my brothers and me to support ourselves. Within the past year I have not spoken to her, she always forgot when we had spoken in any case. When I was about four years old, my mom had a restraining order put against my dad, _______, after having him arrested for domestic abuse. Over the years since then,______ has struggled with alcoholism and drug abuse so we have never developed a relationship, which I find to be in my best interest. From family I have learned that my dad lives in ________ with an uncle of mine, but do not know his whereabouts exactly. Consequently, when my mom moved to Florida, she clip off family financially in order to receive herself on track and stopped making contact shortly after. As aforementioned, there has never been a relationship between me and my dad. In order to support myself, I have kept a job consistently, sometimes working two in order to receive by. ____________________________________________________________________________ It needs some fine tuning I know, but I'm not completely sure HOW much detail is needed in this type of letter. Any feedback will be helpful. Thank you!!

September 3, 2010 at 5:00 pm | read more

Open Question: I HATE my life! What should i do?

September 3, 2010 at 4:59 pm | read more

Open Question: Will this laptop play the games I want to play?

I am thinking of buying this laptop however i need to know beforehand whether it will play fifa manager 2010 and football manager 2010 http://www.pcworld.co.uk/gbuk/dell-inspiron-15r-06684334-pdt.html?srcid=867&xtor=AL-50 The Dell Inspiron N5010 is driven by the Intel® Core™ i3-350M Processor to run the pre-installed Genuine Windows® 7 Home Premium operating system. This laptop has 4GB RAM and a roomy 500GB difficult steer, offering plenty of speed and storage capacity for your multimedia files. With a 1366 x 768 HD LED 15.6" widescreen display, built-in DVD player/rewriter and integrated Intel® Graphics Media Accelerator HD, the Inspiron N5010 delivers over-average image performance, making it perfect for both work and play on the move. Also offering WiFi-hotspot ready 802.11 g/n wireless technology, HDMI and VGA TV output, three USB ports for your digital peripherals and a handy 7-in-1 media card reader, the Inspiron N5010, stylish in red finish, boasts up-to-the-minute connectivity. Affordable yet full of high-performance features, the Inspiron N5010 from Dell offers truly reliable, every-day mobile computing. General Information Processor Intel® Core™ i3-350M Processor - 2.26 GHz - 2.5 GT/s DMI - 3MB Smart Cache Operating System Genuine Windows® 7 Home Premium RAM 4GB Graphics card Intel® HD Graphics Screen type WLED Screen resolution 1366 x 768 Screen size 15.6" difficult steer 500GB Optical disk steer DVD+/-RW Memory card reader 7 in 1 USB 3 FireWire No Modem/Ethernet 1 x RJ-45 Ethernet port Wi-Fi 802.11 g/n Video interface HDMI, VGA Audio interface Audio jacks (1 line-out, 1 Mic-in) TV output HDMI, VGA Sound - Built-in stereo speakers - 2 x 2W - SRS Premium Sound Battery 6-cell, battery life up to 4.5 hours Software included Works 9, McAfee security (trial version) Lo Jack 30 day trial Size Height: 31.8/34 mm Width: 376 mm Depth: 262 mm Weight 2.7 kg How about this one same model more money: Also Includes Genuine Windows® 7 Home Premium, 64bit Inspiron N5010 (UK, FCG04) - i3-350M (2.26Ghz, 4Threads, 3M cache) Microsoft® Office Starter 2010 (Word Starter, Excel Starter) N08N5040 Inspiron N5010 BTS Order - UK 15.6" High Definition (1366x768) WLED Documentation Inspiron N5010 4096MB 1333MHz Dual Channel DDR3 SDRAM [2x2048] 500GB (5400RPM) Serial ATA difficult steer Inspiron N5010 Resource DVD (Diagnostic & Drivers) DVD +/- RW steer (read/write CD & DVD) 90W AC Adaptor Primary 6-cell 48 WHr Lithium Ion battery 1 Meter Power Cord 1GB ATI Mobility Radeon HD 5470 Dell Wireless 1501 Mini Card (802.11g/n) Internal Keyboard 1.3 Mega pixel Integrated Web Camera No DataSafe Online Backup 2GB (Direct) 1 year Collect & Return Hardware Support included with your PC Intel® Core™ i3-350M (2.26Ghz, 4Threads, 3M cache) Dell Wireless 365 Bluetooth Module

September 3, 2010 at 4:53 pm | read more

Open Question: what do you think of my poem?

What is it like to be completely free To have no obligations or rivalry To live my life in complete control To possess my vessel and run the show To never be told where I have to be To walk through life worry free To experience no sadness or gloomy days To relish the sunshine and every of it rays To play in the rain and fear not the storm To like every dance from the day I was born So, what is it like to be completely free Don't waste you time asking me I live in a world every difficult and icy Where people are taught to believe what they're told They struggle and push every the way through Life has no meaning it's every a big rue I tell myself I am glad and complete And then I go home and start to repeat Another days work for another dime It's never enough money and never enough time I'll wake up one day and be very old Realizing most of my life has been stole Regret and anger will fill my soul But lies and fables is what will be told How I enjoyed the few things allowed to me And every my exaggerated prosperity The too few occasions I did like Will be expounded in some sort of ploy Its purpose to recycle untrue hopes and beliefs To keep control of the majority I am not completely free Man, time, and money has control over me But the true brief glimpses of freedom I do look Is the time spent with my pen in the imaginary The wondrous moments of complete joy and bliss Keep me returning to them in hopefulness What excitement of danger or adore will I dream Will it be complete chaos or oddly serene every the possibilities are within my control They do keep me coming back for more And every night when I close my bedroom door I open my notebook where freedom is found ever more I have never taken a poetry class, but I would adore to. I do remember the word stanza from a long time ago in high school, but I couldn't tell you what it means. I just adore to play with words and read other peoples work. I adore the hidden meanings and metaphores, or even outright obvious work. I think an appropriate title would be "True Freedom" Any better suggestions?

September 3, 2010 at 4:48 pm | read more

Open Question: Please Help With Graphic Artist Studio Name...?

Need Name Ideas for Graphic Designer Studio? I am a work at home mom and have been doing my possess graphic arts from home, including logo and identity building, flyers, postcards, invitations etc., and the list goes on! I advertise on Craigslist and Kijiji and receive lots of business but my clients always ask for business cards, after every, I design theirs, I should have my possess...I don't...but am doing them now. I need a creative idea for my studio name...so easy for others but not so easy for myself! Things I am trying to stay away from...using my name, just too long, "Designs by" or using design in the title, just too overused...so I am hear for thoughts and suggestions...my thought at this point is "Imaginable Thoughts" but wanted to look what everyone else thinks and comes up with... any help appreciated! Open to every suggestions! thanks in advance! Sorry other thoughts were.... Creative Invisions NEW Creative How about OMG Graphic Invisions? Just a thought, trendy or dumb? OMG Invisions being Oh My Graphic Invisions!

September 3, 2010 at 4:42 pm | read more

Open Question: need advice asap please help!!!!!!!!!!!!?

my ex husband and i just got divorced. during the divorce we were both going for sole custody of our 3 kids. before the divorce myex and i never legally separated, he just moved out and verbally agreed to me having sole custody as long as he could receive our kids every weekend until they statred school then every other weekend. neither of us had filed fo divorce yet we were waiting for each of us to have the money to split the cost of filing for dissolution. well i let my ex (who moved in withhis mom) arrive receive my kids fo a visit. it was supposed to be a week long visit because my oldest was to be starting kindergarten a little over a month later and my ex wanted some extra time with our kids. i agreed. at the end of that week when it was time for me to go pick my kids up, my ex called and asked if he could keep them for 2 more weeks because he had alot of stuff he had planned to do with our kids and the week hed already had them hadnt been enough time. i again agreed. but told him that my kids had to arrive home at the end of those 2 weeks so that i could receive our oldest registered for school and receive him ready and take him to receive school clothes etc... a couple days before the end of those 2 weeks i called my ex and talked to his mom because he was at work and told her what day i would be there to pick my kids up and what time. she said ok well look u then. when i got to my ex and his mothers home at the agreed upon pick up time no one was there. i figued that maybe they had forgotten the time and were just running behind so i sat in my car and waited. i ended up sitting in my car infront of their home for 12 hours. i called the police thinking something bad had happened like a car accident or some such thing. the cops said they couldnt do a missing persons report because the chief ofpolice in that town is a family pal of my ex and his mom and said he had seen them a few days ago so they werent missing and the other cop told me he couldnt receive my ex for kidnapping because we werent legally diorced yet so it wasnt actualy kidnapping. i went home and called everyone of my ex and his mothers friends that i could find a number for and no one had seenor heard from any of them in days. it was 2 weeks before i found out anything an that was when i got divorce papers in the mail with a paper saying my ex had temp custody and a restraing order on me because he thought i might go there and try to take my kids. i scrambbled to receive the money together to hire a lawyer and we went to court. were were in court for almost a year. the only thing were were arguing over was custody. well at the end of every our court stuff the judge gave custody to my ex's mom, who hadnt even been trying to receive custody. through the almost year we were in court my kids lived with my ex and his mom. his mom is the one that took care of my kids when they were there not my ex. and i was given every other weekend visitation the the duration of our custody battle. the judge said he gave custody to my ex's mom because my ex and i couldnt agree on a parenting plan on our possess. we have a guardian ad litem and right now i am to have every other weekend with my kids in my home during school and every other week during summer. well every time its my weekend my ex's mom calls and tells me that either my kids r sick or some other reason why my kids shouldnt leave her home and makes me g to her home and stay to have my visit with my kids. i have called the guardian ad litem to complain about this because when i receive to her home my kids are not sick at every and whatever other reason my ex's mom has given proves faulse, but the guardian wont return any of my calls and only talks to my ex's mom and tell her that making arrive to her home for my visits is fine even though in the court papers it plainly states that i can have them in my possess home for my visits. my ex's mom tells me that the guardian ad litem can over ride anything it says in our court papers and litterally do what ever she wants. furthermore my 2 oldest kids are now in 1st grade and kindergarten and my ex's mom doesnt make them have a bed time, litterally every night they are up til 1am or longer on a school nite. she wont make them eat any nice of breakfast so they go to school hungry. also my ex's mom is handicapped and very over weight and she has my kids help her tug up her underways bcause she cant reach down to receive it because she is so big. she is very bitter against men and says that every men are worthless and that every men are child molesters and she says this nice of stuff infront of my kids and 2 of my kids are boys and are old enough to understand that they are going to be men when they grow up and i dont want them thinking they are worthless and destined to be child molesters. also when i do go to her home to have my visits with my kids she totally undermines anything i say to my kids. also the 2 weeks tht my ex and hismother and my kids were " missing" it was because my ex had told his mom to pack mykids up andgo to a friends home and hide with my kids so i couldnt pick them up and his lawyer is the one that had advised him to do that. please any advice or suggestions on what i can do right now would be greatly apreciated. i cant receive a lawyer yet because i havent saved enough money yet. i cleanedout my savings for the last lawyer which is why i have to keep up to receive another lawyer. what r my rights as their mom right now? and can the guardian actually over ride what our courtpapers say? and who can i putin a complaint to ifthe guardian wont returnmy calls and i cant talk to the judge? andi dont hve joint custody. my ex's mom has solecustody and i receive visitations. my ex doesnt receive visits cuz he lives there but he ha been arrested for child abuse against my kids a few weeks ago and the guardian ad litem allowed him to move back in to his mothes home with my kids. yes we have legal aid but whe i called them they said they dont help with domestic cases.

September 3, 2010 at 4:35 pm | read more

Open Question: Why are my ex's friends curious about this "new guy" they assumed I have?

My ex broke up w. me about 4months ago. He worked sooo difficult to pursue me; genuinely cared was even more serious about it than me. I was glad being alone but ultimately decided he was worth being with and he had potential and within a span of 2-3 months, he just "didn't feel like having a girlfriend anymore". It was a good relationship; we had the quality of a serious relationship in that short time- met his family, brought me to a wedding, was close w. his good friends, dealt w. money issues, just very comfortable w. each other...when we first met (not dating, talking, etc...), he had told every his friends he had "met someone special". Right now he wants to be "greedy", no 3rd party, and "it wasn't the right time, not ready". We didn't have a bad breakup but I clip off everything and just ran away...haven't spoken to him since. He sent me a few txts reitirating our convo fr. the next before (apologizing) but i never responded back. I've never commented on the breakup on fb or have said anything bad about him...nor have i commented on anything about adore or relationsihps or revenge...nothing like that. His friends have been more than nice to me after the breakup. We were never super close but I always got along w. them when I would look them at parties or at their place. His girl friends (who are like his sisters) are very protective of him yet seem to be more protective of me than him. They still adore him but always tell me how much they hate what he did to me and would want to look me now then to "catch up" (keep in mind, it's always them initiating; not me). My ex's sisters (only met them once but got along great) would always be on my fb account and would "like" my pictures and status. To be honest, the breakup affected my "self esteem" more than my heart. I I worked difficult at the new job, met people, kept busy and worked 5-6 days/week, got into scrapbooking more, spent more time w. friends, went out at night more, worked out (LOST 13lbs! :), and even went to dinner w. a gentleman i met at a wedding. I just got back from vacation w. family and hawaii and i feel like i'm a completely different person - better and stronger. I also found out I got into nursing school. Great blessings for me. Before I left, I posted a pic of me and a cute dancer who worked at the luau I was with and jokingly put, "yup, i got to bring him home. muahaha" My status read lyrics fr. a tune that said "you're amazing, just the way you are" (which is dedicated to me. I found adore for myself in hawaii and finally stoped blaming myself for the breakup). Well, my ex's uncle (who happens to be my best pal's boyfriend) made a comment on the pic and said, "so you found a new guy on your vacation...?" I've know him longer than my ex and he was never once interested in anything about my personal life. And apparently every my ex's friends were "talking about the picture" and assumed that I'm now dating that dancer from the luau?! CRAZY...first, it's not true. I really didn't think much of it and 2nd, why would they care so much? (and not be rude but the guy in the pic is nice of a big upgrade fr. my ex...just fr. the looks/stature of it...I've also changed. I lost weight, fit, tan, did my hair differently, in cute summer outfits...) and 3rd, how could you assume I have a new bf if i'm just taking a pic w. a cute luau dancer? We didn't date that long...i'm just a girl...i'm his ex, yet they're still so nice to me and apparently "everyone's talking about the picture"...which is really nothing - that's why i'm confused to why it's a "big deal"/surprise to his friends...most of them are taken and "coupled" up, yet still curious (not in a nosy way)

September 3, 2010 at 4:33 pm | read more

Open Question: Can a dirty fish tank make people sick?

I work in an office, the guy right next to me has a huge 70+ gallon tank in his area. This tank sits directly behind me (about 3 feet away from my desk). He's worked here for three years and has NEVER once cleaned this tank. About 6 months ago it began to odor something terrible, so I mentioned it to him and asked if he thought cleaning it would correct the odor. He said “No” but that he would receive a new filter because one of his filters had been broken. I then asked him why he didn’t want to clean it because I thought every the greenish algae (which lines the perimeter of the bottom of the tank where the rocks are, about 2.5 inches up the sides) was the cause of the odor. He told me the algae was supposed to be there for a “healthy ecosystem”…and he went on to explain that the algae feed the sucker fish. My question is: can dirty tank potentially make people, who are next to the tank 40 hours a week, sick? Myself and a number of other employees (including this guy) have headaches and burning eyes unique to when we’re at the office. I’ve changed the Office AC air filters, thinking that could be why we had these symptoms…and that doesn’t help. I don’t receive these headaches when I’m at home doing the same computer work as I do in the office. Can anyone help me understand what a healthy fish tank is? And what an unhealthy fish tank is? thanks!!

September 3, 2010 at 4:30 pm | read more

Open Question: Would this be enough to break our lease?

My boyfriend and I recently moved to Tennessee, but we need to move back home to be with family. We've thoroughly looked over our lease agreement, but some things are a little fuzzy. Our apartment complex is a "gated community", but in the 6 months that we've been here, we have only had to enter the code a total of four times. Any other time, it has been wide open. We've voiced our concerns to our property manager and leasing consultant, but nothing has been done about it. There was a robbery outside of our building the other day, which makes me wonder if it could have been prevented if the gate closed. Another issue that we've encountered has been parking. The complex hands out parking permits and reserves the front row for residents and the back for visitors. It seems like every night that we have to park a few buildings down because there are almost never any spots. It gets to the point where other people are parking in flame lanes. This was also brought to the managements attention, but nothing has been done. I work tardy nights and do not feel comfortable parking 5 minutes away from my apartment, walking through a poorly lit courtyard when the gate is suppose to be closed every night but isn't. We've paid our rent on time and have fulfilled our contractual agreements so far (60 day written notice of leave, etc), but we do not feel that we should pay our termination fee. Also, we signed a SureDeposit and I'm not quite sure what that entails, but it covers some of it...right? TL;DR Complex isn't doing their job and we think we shouldn't pay them because they haven't. There are other examples, but thought I'd share the main concerns. Thanks! Dale - The gate was only functional (barely, at that) the first month. Since then, it hasn't been closed AT every. After our concerns were addressed, nothing has been done. That is the basis of my frustration with the complex. Because we (and many others) have voiced the problems of the community and they haven't done anything. They have falsely advertised and pulled too many bait-and-switches. Between the gate not closing, non-permitted cars filling up resident parking, constantly flooded tennis court, knowingly leasing to residents where there is mold in the building, huge pest problem and a few other items in the lease that THEY are breaking, it becomes ridiculous. Contract or not, they have done enough wrong to not warrant a check from me. That being said, if it goes to court, what legal issues would I encounter, what are some good fighting points for me and what do they have over me (besides the actual lease)? Also, odds that I can win this case?

September 3, 2010 at 4:29 pm | read more

Open Question: A batter hits a fly ball which leaves the bat .90 m above ground at an angle of 55 initial speed 25 m/s?

How far from home dish would the ball land if not caught? The ball is caught by a fielder, starting at a distance of 105 m from home dish, runs straight towards home dish at a constant speed, and makes the catch at ground leve. Find his speed. please show work. thank you Vox = Vx = 14.34 m/s Voy = 20.48 m/s Time to reach top to where velocity is zero = 4.22s Vy = -20.88 m/s on the way down Am I headed in the right direction?

September 3, 2010 at 4:27 pm | read more

Open Question: Thinking about quiting my job but I have a kid to think about?

i have a so-so job. the pay is good, but the demands are high. i'm a nanny and also a baby sitter. i work about 5-7 days a week my nannying job is demanding as i said: i have to tutor the two yr old her ABC's, shapes, colors, do the Your Baby Can Read program, tutor simple math (count to 40 and count backwards from 20), tutor her to write, do art projects, make a lesson plan, tutor some cooking skills, and do 3 sets of flashcards with her a day by the time i receive home i am so worn out i can barely think about caring for my possess kid! the mom suggested i bring my daughter with me but... NOT HAPPENING the little girl is so bratty it's not silly. she spits, she hits, she doesn't hear, and every time she cries, they give in. they say it hurts them to say no to her. everything has turned into a battle with her (parents fault). they argue and beg and plead with her to eat. simple things like taking her outside turn into a battle of wills what would you do? should i wait until i have another job lined up before i quit? if i stay with my job, how do you handle a kid like this? there is absolutely no way i will ever bring my child to work with me. she was bron premature and the two year can receive violent at times. i'm not going to put my duaghter in harms way when it can be avoided. the two year old likes to toss toys and such at other children

September 3, 2010 at 4:27 pm | read more

Open Question: A question to Males: If U hadn't been given the right to vote until 1920, late in first 1/4, 20th Century...?

*) How would you have felt...if every along you had not the rights men had had FOR centuries? *) Were not expected and not accepted in many Universities? *) Were below lady'S Rule till then? *) Were expected to be the homemaker, child carer, every household activities were left to you? *) Were not expected to work as equally as "Wifey?" not out of the home or in the home for the making of her possess purse' money? *)Were to be expected to obey wifey in and out of the bedroom, "No, I'd rather not!" : ( NOT EVER TO BE HEARD FROM YOUR LIPS, gentlemen...it simply does not happen!!!) *) Were expected to bear as many kids as pregnancies resulted in delivering? *) Were encouraged to be wifey's pretty, delicate bauble, in trusses, painful footwear to make your feet smaller, therefore more delicate - while wearing fashion which made you look like an elaborately designed with icing Cake, (oooh, Yum-Yum!!!) in order to be of attraction? *) at the height of rediculous fashion for the eye of the other gender, your last rib on each side, Gentlemen would be removed in order to show a tiny waist? *) In some regions of the world, allowed only picture books to look at, while women could go so far as to becoming scholars in Full Right? *) Had to go join the other kept men in a separate parlor as company for tea and crumpets, while the women sat in the dining room, smoking their big great cigars, and drinking Brandy? - (Oh, ha ha ha, Such Jolly Good!) *) Were expected to always be, act in a demure way? *) If you were a writer such as George Sands, had to disguise yourself as a lady to break into the field, and or be accepted, and possibly, make a name for yourself as a male writer in a lady's creative world? I believe I can easily bring in more examples for you to ponder...but let us cease here. Then Tell me? How would you feel? Would you feel sufficient fulfillment being considered a 2nd rate citizen? Would you have wanted more?: The right to vote or example. The right to make a life as you'd plan it. The right to a full education as men had had. The right to talk up when you knew d@mned well you had a valid point to make to wifey and her lady's world. The right to start a movement as a protest to this detestable as well as abominable Suppression and Oppression. And if the women's movement which seems to offend so many men still...The Feminist movement... If you'd had the daring to attempt to break from such oppression, would you have given yourselves as a movement ; a name??? What would that be, I'd be curious to know. For much is said against "feminism", "feminists" or women, not militant, men-hating, vindictive, chip -on-the-shoulders (mal-contented) trouble mongers, but simply women who have the right I believe, to what men have, where it applies...(men-women football being out as an example)...what would represent the importance, value, fair, (as in humanistic human gain), not taking away from the other gender - WHAT NAME, then, would you give your movement against such was intolerable an Oppression which lasted centuries, and continues even now, but far more below cover, and whispered opinion? And what, if in that movement would you call yourselves, gentlemen - in a world much mastered by WOMEN??? Women, please, you may offer your thoughts as well. Equal opportunity given to what your opinions may be toward this "if the tables had been turned" issue, I've brought to be pondered.

September 3, 2010 at 4:26 pm | read more

Open Question: interested or just being nice to me? 10 points for the best answer!?

September 3, 2010 at 4:22 pm | read more

Open Question: Do you think it is appropriate to talk on the phone at work about home problems?

My bf loves to call me at work to complain about home issues and I hate that. We can take personal calls on the phone at work I am a secretary/receptionist with a phone at my desk. I just think talking about some bs from home at work is stupid. I think waiting until you receive home to talk is better.

September 3, 2010 at 4:13 pm | read more

Open Question: Legal?? -Landlord sent a letter saying my smoking ciggarettes is bothering other tenants..?

Someone please tell me if this is even legal, or are they just nit picking? Keep in mind, I live in an apartment complex, it's only my husband and I, we RARELY have company, smoking is permitted, and we have a ceiling fan on pretty much every the time. My husband and I both smoke a little less than a pack a day, although he is at work at least 10 hours each evening.. so I guess it's just me smoking in the home for the most part.. The letter is as follows: "We have recently been receiving concerns that there has been an abnormal amount of cigarette smoking coming from your apartment at every hours of the day and night. As stated in your Leasing Agreement, section 9-D. Resident parties shall not engage in unlawful, improper, unreasonable, or prohibited behavior, every of which shall be a breach of this Lease, including the disturbing, infringing upon, adversely affecting or threatening the rights, comfort, health, safety, property or convenience of others in or close the community. With this being said we must insist that you respect the rights of other residents and keep the amount of smoke down to a minimum." So.. if this is legal somehow, are they saying they have the right to control how many cigarettes we smoke? Or that we have to go outside our possess home, where we pay rent, where smoking is allowed? It just every doesn't add up to me. Anyone with some legal knowledge who could give me some input would be much appreciated. Thank you. yes I am allowed to smoke inside my apt. The tenant before me did as well. I don't have a balcony or anything, our entrances are inside a hallway. So, this is basically saying I could complain about anyone in the builing for whatever I want and they're going to receive into trouble? It seems to me there should be some proof of something before action is taken.

September 3, 2010 at 4:07 pm | read more

Open Question: funny sick smell in house?

i receive home from work today and theres a silly sick odor in my home. but then i can odor like poo at times. iv cleaned the fridge floors drains etc and looked everywhere the odor just lingers around. i cnt pin point wer its coming from. any sugestions?

September 3, 2010 at 4:07 pm | read more

Open Question: My ex made a move at me. Did I overreact? Should I apologize?

I broke off with my ex about 7-8 months ago because my life was a mess and I needed time to sort things out. We decided that this was the best thing to do for the both of us. But life moved on and she has had several relationships since then and now I too have met someone whom I adore. every the old friends decided to meet up again so we had a bbq. I talked to my ex before hand asking her if it was alright to bring my current GF, since I heard that she was bringing her new BF. You know I wanted to make sure everything was ok. So we every went and every got introduced. I met her new BF and he seemed like a nice guy. Well into the night I decided to take a break from the partying. A few minutes on the porch and my ex Gf came to a couple of minutes later. We talked a little and then she tried to kiss me. And to be honest I got pretty pissed. She asked me why. I said because not even one week after we broke up she was in bed with someone else. And she didn't even have the decency not to let me know about it over facebook. It wasn't fun for me to read about how wonderful life was for her especially since my life was crap. I had lost my girl and I had a lot of personal problems that I needed to work on. And now without even as much of a apologie for her behaviour she tries to kiss me without thinking about the consequenses. I thought it was best for me to leave. I took my girl and drove home. But now when I have calmed down I start to question my actions. I was wondering if I should call and apologize. I yelled a little at her. Should I call and try to mend things?

September 3, 2010 at 3:57 pm | read more

Open Question: How can I avoid becoming gay?

I'm a 19 year old guy - I was brought up as Christian, and I believe in God, the holy trinity, and the resurrection, though I haven't been to church in quite a long time. Since I was 11 or so, I've been attracted to other guys and had fantasies about having sex with them, while having no feelings whatsoever for girls. I know this is every really unnatural and perverted, but I don't know how I can change. I want to go to college and marry a lady, and have a family without worrying about becoming a homosexual. I've tried praying to God a lot, and I've spent almost the whole last year at home alone (apart from when I worked) just hoping that my thoughts about guys would go away. None of it worked, and I don't know what to do. I've heard the camps and programs like that are every scams. Any ideas or suggestions? God bless.

September 3, 2010 at 3:54 pm | read more

Open Question: How can I get rid of homosexual urges?

September 3, 2010 at 3:52 pm | read more

Open Question: How can I avoid becoming homosexual?

September 3, 2010 at 3:52 pm | read more

Open Question: I MISS MY SEXY GUY FRIEND AND I NEED HIM BACK, WHAT MUST I DO?

WELL I MET THIS GORGEOUS GUY AT MY JOB WHO LOOKS LIKE ONE OF MY FAVORITE FOOTBALL PLAYERS DARREN SHARPER FROM THE SAINTS. I WROTE HIM ON FACE BOOK WHEN I FOUND OUT HIS NAME. WE EXCHANGED NUMBERS AND HE CAME TO MY JOB TO look, AND OF COURSE HE WAS VERY FLIRTATIOUS :). I WAS A LITTLE SKEPTICAL ABOUT HIM BEING SO FLIRTATIOUS WITH ME, BUT IT WAS SO ATTRACTIVE TO ME CUZ HE'S SOOO HANDSOME. WELL HE CAME BY MY home, AND WE JUST CHILLED, AND WE DIDN'T EVEN HAVE SEX. WE LAID IN MY BED AND I HAD MY HEAD ON HIS CHEST AND WE JUST COMFORTED EACH OTHER, AND HE GENTLY KISSED ME. I FELT SOO glad BECAUSE WHEN YOU'RE ALONE IN A ROOM WITH THE OPPOSITE SEX THINGS HAPPEN. I SMILED SO difficult BECAUSE HE RESPECTED ME BY JUST KEEPING HIS HANDS ON MY BACK AND CARESSING MY BACK AND FACE. I FELT SO WANTED AT THAT MOMENT. SO LATER ON THAT NIGHT I WENT TO WORK AND HE CAME INTO MY JOB AND MY FRIENDS STARTED POINTING AT HIM TALKING ABOUT HOW CUTE HE WAS. I WAS A LITTLE EMBARRASSED CUZ THEY STARTED DRAWING ATTENTION IN OUR DIRECTIONS. SO I PUT MY HEAD DOWN WHEN HE GOT CLOSER. I DIDNT talk TO HIM THAT NIGHT CUZ OF EMBARRASSMENT. IM GUESSING HE SAW MY REACTION AND AS HE WALKED OUT HE SAID NOTHING TO ME. THE NEXT NIGHT HE CAME IN WITH THIS unhappy LOOK ON HIS FACE AND AGAIN SAID NOTHING TO ME. THEN HE STOPPED COMING TO MY JOB ON THE DAYS I WORKED, IT HURT ME TO KNOW THAT I MAY HAVE TAMPERED WITH HIS FEELINGS. THIS HAPPENED AT THE END OF JULY 2010, AND WE STILL HAVENT SPOKEN. I MISS HIM SOOO MUCH, I WANTED HIM TO BE MY "IMITATION DARREN SHARPER" LOL SINCE I PROLLY WOULDNT RUN INTO THE REAL ONE. HE WORKS OVER IN AFGHANISTAN AND I THINK HE WENT BACK OVER THERE. I JUST WANT HIM TO KNOW HOW TRULY SORRY I AM AND THAT THIS WASNT DONE INTENTIONALLY. IM SCARED TO CALL OR TEXT HIM IN FEAR THAT HE MAY NOT RESPOND OR HE MAY DISS ME. I FINALLY FOUND SOMEONE I WAS TRULY INTERESTED IN, NOW HE'S GONE :( I WANTED TO SPEND TIME GETTING TO KNOW HIM, COOKING FOR HIM, AND TREATING HIM LIKE MY "FAKE DARREN SHARPER". I AT LEAST WANTED TO HAVE HIM AS A LITTLE BOO WHEN HE CAME HOME. WHAT CAN I DO TO REVERSE THIS WHOLE SITUATION (I EVEN PRAYED ON IT). PLEASE CAN SOMEONE HELP,BECAUSE IM A LOSS FOR WORDS :( I would like to say thankyou so much to LALA1239. Thanks for your positive response and being so real. I was looking for someone like you to answer my question because most people receive on her and dont respond with serious inquiries, and you nice feel that its a waste of time asking cuz people play so much on here and give sarcastic ass answers. Im not looking for sarcasm, im just looking for advice, so if you are here to make fun of my question or are here to be facetiuos this is not the place for you. Serious inquiries only. And thankas for the others who responded positively.

September 3, 2010 at 3:51 pm | read more

Open Question: How do I help my dog use the bathroom after leg surgery?

My dog just came home from the hospital after having his kneecap and lower leg corrected from an injury. The doctor said to use a "sling" or a t-shirt or towel when helping him use the bathroom, but I can't seem to figure out the logistics of how that would work or what it's supposed to look like. I can't find any pictures online. He's a little tiny dog, a Maltese, and so I don't know how to use a towel to hold his back leg up without covering his penis, which sort of defeats the purpose. I have no idea how we're going to do the pooping part either. He hasn't eaten while in the hospital, so that might not be an immediate problem like the peeing one is. Any ideas, suggestions or better yet PICTURES would be wonderful. He's going to have to go soon, so I'd be really grateful for anything! Thank you!

September 3, 2010 at 3:48 pm | read more

Open Question: Want to move but would be far from work, bad idea?

I wanna move to a different city with my friends somewhere close to LA, but i'd be increasing my commute time to work by 30 minutes (making it about 45min). I work 6am-2:30pm so rushhour should not be an issue, but would I regret it? I mean I hate the area i live in right now. It's boring and nothing ever happens. But if I moved somewhere fun then when i receive home from work, fun things would be walking distance and I'd be close to every my friends.

September 3, 2010 at 3:43 pm | read more

Open Question: My gut feeling is telling me i cant trust my boyfriend, should i go with that feeling and leave or wait?

He lives with me and comes home from work every night to me and my kids, hes a nice guy but somethings missing. He told me i could use his laptop when ever i wanted to i got on to check my facebook and it was already logged on to his. I didnt want to snoop but i did do a tiny bit of it. I looked at a recent message between him and an attractive girl, the girl said she wanted to talk to him and she would call him and he said "I can't wait... i really can't". I dont want to read too much into it but i dont want to be a fool either. My gut is telling me i cant trust him but i have no difficult evidence.. What should i do?? Im 25, hes 29...if that helps Its not just that one instance, i watch him when he doesnt know i am and he give girls weird looks and when he drinks he hits on the most atteactive girl in the room a lot. But he doesnt go places without me... i just dont know what to think...

September 3, 2010 at 3:39 pm | read more

Open Question: Who's right and wrong here?

For the past year and a half my little sister worked as a babysitter for this lady. She went over and beyond her job title as babysitter, did everything with the kids from cooking, to movies to taking care of them until they went to snooze, really did a lot more then the parents themselves. Also did other favors for the family, rides to places to pick up cars and drop stuff off, not short drives either, 45 minutes and more. Everything was fine until this lady just didn't call back, she owes my sister $120 for a weeks work. No word for about 3 weeks, then my sister decided to go and receive a full time job being her school year is ending she wants more money and work and this lady just fell off the place of the earth, not returning phone calls just gone. My sister ran into her in the store one day and the lady looked like she saw a ghost, was every "I'm so sorry I know I owe you money I haven't called you in so long a lot has been going on" bla bla bla. OKay, another 2 weeks pass. Finally this lady out of the blue calls my sister on Wed night and says I'm so sorry I have your money I know I owe you 120 it's been over a month I receive paid tomorrow I'll call you...okay no call. Finally my sister calls, the kid picks up "mom isn't home she'll be here at 7" 7 comes nothing, my sister calls again nothing, againt two more times nothing. Today my sister calls this lady's job and is like okay what's up, she says "I'm so sorry I got home at 11 last night (her kids were alone every day until 11pm last night ages 11, and 6) I'm so sorry," my sister says okay thats fine I can arrive over tonight. The lady freaks, "oh oh tonight well, uh uh let me call (husband) and maybe he's home now to give you money I'll call you back" half hour passes no call back. My sister calls both cell phones of husband they are disconnected. My mom is starting to receive really mad now and wants to call this lady herself, not the best choice but she did, and was cival and nice until the lady started to receive mad. She said my sister is a grown lady and can handle herself, well not if you're not going to be paying her. It turns into words and fighting and the lady is getting mad every while not paying my sister. My sister said she wants the money tonight by 6. Does this lady have a right to do something like this? What can we do to receive my sisters money?

September 3, 2010 at 3:30 pm | read more

Open Question: Could daily fast food consumption cause depression?

I've been eating atleast some form of quick food everyday for about 2 months.Sometimes 2 times a day,usually its a Big cheeseburger from Jack in the box,or half lb bean n cheese burritos/tacos from Del Taco or Taco Bell.. I hardly ever have a good nutritious home cooked meal. However,I work out daily,receive plenty of exercise,Multi vitamin,omega 3,6,9 oils,magnesium,calcium and vit D everday for 5 years. I wake up with anxiety and lack of interest in life. Its extremely difficult for me to receive into anything. could this possibly be caused from eating too much quick food daily? And,if i switch to salads,fruits and veggies and lean meat etc,will I notice a difference in motivation,dopamine production,etc? At work,I feel fine because I'm a warehouse laborer and I receive a decent workout. thanks please no criticism.

September 3, 2010 at 3:26 pm | read more

Open Question: How do I ask my friend to make more time for me?

Okay, so i have this pal who i have known for 10 years, and afew years ago we both moved to different areas. Since then we've always arranged to go to stay in the old area for a weekend at the same time. We don't go very often and these summer holidays i haven't seen her at every, in fact I haven't seen her since march. Last weekend, i was going to stay with my nan in the old area for a few days and seeing as it was bank holiday i wouldn't have had work so could have stayed a couple of days longer, but my pal asked me to go this weekend instead. Other things affecting it as well, i decided to go this weekend because my pal said she'd be here the whole weekend. Today I phoned her with her sister who still lives here and i am also friends with, and she said she's only coming for the day, she's leaving at midday and she'll probably leave in the evening. She's bringing her boyfriend with her too and he is the reason shes only coming for the day.She said he has to leave to receive home early sunday morning but we dont understand why she has to leave too. She can only look him at weekends because he lives far away and i completely understand that she wants to look him because i have had that with my possess boyfriend too, but every we asked was that she take one weekend every once in a while to arrive and look us instead and she went off on one saying we were accusing her of picking him over us which isnt what we said at every. She wouldnt even let us have our say to explain properly and hung up on us, so we left her and will talk to her in private tomorrow so she has to face us and has to hear us out. Since she has been with him, she has reserved EVERY weekend to look him and wont look anyone else instead unless he is there, or if she does it is only for one day and she is on the phone to him a few times during the day. It's getting really frustrating now because they've been together a while now and i was hoping it might wear off a bit so she was willing to look us sometimes instead. I'm not asking for much, just a weekend for every couple of months or something which (seeing as we're best friends) i wouldnt think would be a big deal. The thing is, i am not sure on how to talk to her about it without it causing an argument because she took it so badly today, and i dont look why i should keep my mouth close when i always hear her out when she has a problem and try to help. I'm sorry it's such a long story but please try to help me because i really dont want to drift apart from my pal, we've managed for five years to keep in touch and now i feel like he might be coming between us but by no means intentionally on anyones part

September 3, 2010 at 3:22 pm | read more

Open Question: Co-Workers being rude about my marriage, What should i do?

i have worked here for 2 months, everyone is close here and hangs out often(mainly drink). well, I was invited to go out after work for drinks with a bunch of guys from work(whom i believe like me more than a co worker) I just got married this past may and we have a loving glad marriage. Me and my husband dont think its appropriate for us to go out with people other than friends . not that we dont trust, its just who would want their spouse at a bar with a bunch of guys or girls. Just our choice and we are glad with it. Well I told them no thank you, I am married and dont think its appropriate for me to do that sorry guys. Well three of the guys just started going attacking me, oh your marriage is going to end, you have no trust in each other, you guys need help, I want to meet your husband and talk to him, you guys are crazy. there was more things they said i cant remember line by line, but it was basically more on the subject. I was so upset i just turned my back to them and then they said oh dont be mad at us. And sometimes they make jokes , like oh what are you guys doing just hanging around the home,hahahahaha or oh you guys going to the muesum again hahahaha. One of the guys is a single dad who is 30 and lives at home with his parents, the other divorced, and the other a young party kid. I dont know what to do now, Should i report to my boss? There boss is buddy buddy with them and usually goes drinking with them. Or should i let them know next time they say something , that i dont want to hear it anymore? My husband is supportive and told me whatever i need to do he is fine with. Even if it means quiting, but id like to keep my job since i make decent money. Another thing is we are moving this company very soon to a new building in about a month so i will no longer be next to them. i dont need advice on how my marriage doesnt have trust please! Me and my husband are perfectly content with our marriage, I just would like advice on what to do with pricks at work who harrass me about my marriage And by the way I am TTC and possibly pregnant at the moment. So Last thing I need is to go to a bar. But I dont even drink anyways, and wouldnt put my husband in that situation with his possible pregnant wife with co workers at a bar

September 3, 2010 at 3:20 pm | read more

Open Question: Do the majority of tradesmen (electricians, carpenters, etc.) travel in the UK?

I am a American who is in a long term relationship with a man from Britain. He is a electrician who travels every over the UK and Ireland for work. He says that is the norm there for those who live in rural areas. I find it vey odd that the wives or girlfriends of these men are OK with them being gone from home for such long periods of time (weeks on end) they are living the lives of single men. Is this really the norm? And if so how do the relationships manage to last? I find it difficult to accept sitting in a bar or pub every night amost daily.

September 3, 2010 at 3:19 pm | read more

Open Question: What to do about bad telephone wiring in rental unit?

Moved into a rental unit to find our telephone does not work. Our telephone company sends a technician who confirms the wires are severely damaged and intentionally sliced in places. He advises it will cost between $150-$250 to fix. We talk to the management of the rental company and they say too bad, so unhappy. We know they are being replaced so we wait the 3 weeks for the new management to arrive in. New management says they're really busy with work orders but they will receive to it. I call them every couple days for weeks and they keep saying they will fix it, but they don't. every this time I am paying my telephone bill but I don't have a working telephone. This is hugely frustrating and a big inconvenience as I'm looking for work, which is very difficult to do without a working telephone, not to mention, every the other things I need a telephone for, booking appointments, etc; So, what do I do? Would it be okay to receive a technician in from the telephone company and have them bill the rental company? Or should I just pay for it myself? It's a huge expense being as I'm out of work and for every the hassle I've already been through, I don't want to pay it on principle. Besides, if I'm going to pay for it myself I would have done so 3 months ago rather than go without phone this whole time. Also, one reason I rent right now, is because I don;t want to be bothered with maintenance expenses, etc; If I owned a home, I would expect this, but as a renter I should be able to pay my rent and not worry about home maintenance. What would you do?

September 3, 2010 at 3:14 pm | read more

Open Question: Should I let my relationship end after being with my significant other for more than 4 yrs?

I am a 23 year old female. I live with my boyfriend who is 28 yrs old. We recently got into a battle because he complains that I don't cook. He was very mad and told me that I either had to start cooking every day or find someone else that doesn't require so much from me. I work from 9-530 I arrive home and work out I pay half the bills at home...I mean I take care of my part. I wash clothes and I keep the home clean and he doesn't seem to care. I've never been too crazy about cooking. I cook once in a great while (I do know how to cook 3-4 course meals) I just don't have time to do it sometimes and he is frustrated because he says he's sleepy of eating unhealthy junk food everyday. I know he is stressed out because his brother recently moved in with us (he is 14 yrs old) and its a responsibility neither of us had, we don't have any kids yet. I know eating out gets expensive but I still don't think its fair that I receive treated like that. I want my relationship to work but I am amazed my boyfriend would let me go over something like this. I don't know what to do. We are broken up right now and I am looking for a place to stay. He doesn't seem to care that I am leaving. Before every this we were already talking about marriage and kids. I just don't understand.

September 3, 2010 at 3:14 pm | read more

Open Question: How can I have my 21.5-inch iMac replaced?

In October last year, I decided to buy a 21.5-inch iMac, but I have had a few problems since receiving it in November last year. Firstly, about a month after receiving the iMac, my son noticed a grey "mist" forming underneath the glass display. Due to it being beneath the glass, I was unable to clean it. I took it to an Apple Store where they removed the display and explained that it was caused by my partner and myself smoking around it. Since we discover that smoking had caused the "mist", we have had a total ban on smoking in our home, but I have recently noticed that a "mist" seems to be forming underneath the screen again. Only this time I do not know how nor why. Additionally, we are unable to play DVDs on the iMac. During some DVDs, the DVD Player application becomes unresponsive and displays the "skipping over damaged content" message, and other DVDs are ejected a few seconds after being inserted. Strangely enough, CDs seem to work without any problem. There is no issue with any of the DVDs as they are every in perfect condition, undamaged and work on other DVD players in our home. I have read online that if the iMac is still below warranty, I should be able to have the SuperDrive replaced, and that may fix the problem. However, since I am still having issues with the reoccurring "mist" below the display, despite having had the problem "fixed" and taking precautions to prevent it from happening again, I would prefer to have the iMac replaced. There is no issue with content on the difficult-steer as it is relatively new. I would also like to mention that when we received it, there was a "dead-pixel" in the centre of the display that is still gift and does bother me when using it. I am glad I brought it as it is a very good computer, but these tiny faults are very annoying and are ruining our experience with owning an iMac. I was wondering if someone could perhaps advise me on what to do? It is still below the one-year limited warranty, and I have extended that with an Apple OneCare extended warranty. Thank you. The "mist" is like a greyish tar on the underside of the glass. It extends from the far left corner with a radius of approximately 5-inches. It is located only on the left of the display and is visible when the iMac is switched off, and when the iMac is switched on. When switched on, the "mist" is not as visible, but it dilutes the colours of the pixels, thus making it visible. The coloration of the pixels in the "misted" area appears less saturated, with some tiny areas appearing almost black-and-white. This "mist", as I have described it is very much a problem. Over time, it appears to be moving down the display towards the bottom left corner.

September 3, 2010 at 3:14 pm | read more

Open Question: are there any legit work from home jobs?

im a restaurant manager and a mom...i hardly ever receive time off or home. i'd adore to be able to make some money on the side from home and clip back my hours at the store...please help!

September 3, 2010 at 2:47 pm | read more

Open Question: I think I have been suffering from post natal depression. need advice please?

Ok so my son is nearly three and i got pregnant at 40.....during the pregnancy I was not well and was very sleepy and since my son has been born I have become very withdrawn, rarely go out except shopping or to take my son to the park and have just not felt like socialising so much so that I stopped answering phone calls to friends and keeping my home phone on silent. I have found it utterly exhausting being a parent of a youngster at this age and although my son is delightful, I am finding it very difficult work. His dad is the only support I have....his dad works away sometimes and when he is away for a week to work, I panic and feel like I cant cope cos when he works away I dont receive the little regular breaks. Is it possible to still have post natal depression even though my son is nearly 3. I feel nervous about going to look my GP or health visitor, but yet I need some help as I have become socially isolated and dont feel glad, I rarely look my friends anymore - every their kids are older so its like we do not have the same things in common. Thank you to every nice and helpful responses....it has taken me a lot of courage to finally admit that I am not well and need help so wish no-one is rude many thanks

September 3, 2010 at 2:43 pm | read more

Open Question: I currently live with my partner and her mother. Her mother is always in our business, what should i do?

Hello, I'm 23, and currently living with my partner of 2 years, and her mom. I grew up in a tiny town with 3 cease lights and our high school only consisted of 450 classmates, (freshman-senior). I grew up with divorced parents, my mom took us in and my dad pretty much deserted us after the divorce. Being raised in the country and my mom was always gone with work and putting herself thru school getting a BA in RN really kinda put a tole on us kids. We kinda taught ourselves how to clean and cook and cope when she wasn't around. I'm a twin and i have a brother who is 3 years older. He was our dad. Now that i have found adore in a female, i moved to the city to be with her. My ways of life are a bit different from hers. I feel like my way of living is not acceptable in her mothers home. I wasn't raised to clean the home everyday, that includes dusting the night stand and vacuuming the carpet everyday. Maybe once or twice a week but i wasn't raised in doing every that. If i accidentally slip and forget to pick up my clothes from the bathroom right after taking a shower, the mom complains in spanish and my partner deliberately starts verbally abusing me. I recently lost my job because i wasn't fluent in spanish. Now, i feel like my partner and her mom are siding with each other and i'm not really welcome in the home. If i'm not busting my butt to find a job so we can move out of her mothers home, i'm getting yelled at for not having a job period. Almost like neither one of them understand that we're still in a recession and finding jobs in a big city are pretty difficult. Especially since i don't have a degree, or CDL license. I feel like i'm a failure, nothing i do is right or understandable for either of them. Should i just receive out of the relationship now? Or let her mom interfere with our relationship and keep putting things in her daughter's head to push her away from me. I realize her mom is trying to protect her daughter from having to settle with someone that doesn't have a job and isn't in school, but i adore her with everything i possibly could have. Before we had to move in with her mom, we understood each other perfectly. Hardly ever had arguments. She respected me and appreciated the fact that i helped out. Now that i lost my job, her mom has gotten to her and i feel like i'm not welcome. I don't know what to do? Someone help. Please!!

September 3, 2010 at 2:40 pm | read more

Open Question: pregnant and parenting moms????? advice?

Do you have any advice on how to be more energetic during the day? I am having a difficult time being emotionally awake. I'm 19. 32 weeks pregnant and have a very active daughter who is almost 3. My husband works long days 6 days a week. and this pregnancy has had its toll on me. Im up at 6 am to receive my husband ready for work. then 7-7:30 my daughter is awake. I try to receive some more snooze between hubby leaving and daughter waking up but usually doesn't go well. Being as far along as i am i have a difficult time sleeping. Then from the time she wakes up to the time she takes a nap around 11. i am exhausted. i don't have the energy to do anything but snooze. but i cant because i have to care for my daughter. Then around 11 to 12 she is ready for a nap and i cant help but snooze with her. feeling guilty though because i know i have home duties that need to be taken care of, then.... 2 or 3 we wake up and i have to force myself to do my home duties. cleaning kitchen, living room bathroom ect.. but drag my feet the whole time.... and my husband is disappointed when he gets home because there is more i could have done. Does anyone have advice on how to go about my days better, honestly... im not being lazy. i am just constantly drowsey. I try but end up sitting because i am so sleepy. My feet are swollen. as is my lady area due to pregnancy. Im constantly weak and ready to burst into tears because i know he is going to be dissapointed. How can i receive more energy? and feel better so i cant take care of what i need to, How did you balance, a toddler, a husband, a home and a rough pregnancy every at the same time???

September 3, 2010 at 2:39 pm | read more

Open Question: problem with copy my home videos to my maxwell dvd-r disc?

I would like to copy my home movies from my video camera to the maxwell dvd-r disc and it is not working, even when i put the blank disc in the computer it makes silly tapping noise. what can i do

September 3, 2010 at 2:29 pm | read more

Open Question: HELP ME WITH THIS DREAM PLEASE!?

OK recently I made a new pal on myspace. I thought she was very, very cute but that was it and i didn't think of her obsessively or anything after that. Last night however, I had dreamt of spending my whole life with her. Starting from when we were kids every the way to when we got old (im 15 btw). It started off me seeing her at a mall close one of the stores she was working in, i started talking to her an i dont remeber what i did but it went to a cpl years or months later i think and i saw her at my home and she hugged me and i kissed her then it blacked out and went to our wedding. I was soo glad and she was to, but while we were walking down the eisle like i guess heading to the party every of a sudden we turned old. No offense but she was pretty big but, i still loved her. She was apparently dying so i had went to the store to receive her some medicine while my nephew was watching her (he looked like he was 20 or 30) as i was in the car driving home after gettin the medicine i was remembering every the things we did together being young. God she was so beautiful and i started to sob and i remember saying "I dont want my baby to die" and just kept crying. I got home and i looked at the tv an she was watching our old wedding video and i knocked on the door because she was in the bathroom then i woke up. Now that i look at her pics on myspace man she looks exactly like the girl in my dream and she is gorgeous. What does this dream mean? It cant be i dreamed about her because i thought about her alot, I wasnt obsessed with her before the dream an im not now but i think about her now. Lovie I wish i got to know her, i realize now that i think i adore this girl but you know i cant just arrive out with it over myspace. Any help?

September 3, 2010 at 2:26 pm | read more

Open Question: Would you respect a man that quit his job to keep from paying child support?

My boyfriend quit his job in order to not pay child support (in my opinion). He is a financial advisor, and he said that he was below so much stress going through the divorce that he wasn't able to function at work, so he went out on disability and then eventually quit. He said that because of his licenses, if he got fired it would follow him for 10 years because work history is public information for financial advisors. He also said that if he had kept his job and was working 12-15 hour days he never would have gotten a decent visitation arrangement & he would have been hammered with child support payments. He quit his job, went back to college to finish his masters degree...living on financial aid & student loans, and won 50/50 custody. He has since finalized the divorce, and lost his home. He's now living in a tiny apartment with his child half the time. I like this guy, but I have a difficult time not seeing his ex-wife's point of view. I would be livid if my ex tried to tug the same thing in order to receive out of paying me child support. However, my child's dad isn't the college type and barely spends time with our kids so I could be projecting my feelings towards my ex on my current boyfriend.

September 3, 2010 at 2:15 pm | read more

Open Question: How to evict (SISTER) from home we are renting?

She has decided to not pay rent for this month. She also decided to black male my mom because she is mexican and has fake paper. She siad that she will live here at home for free for one month and that there is nothign she (mom) can do. her + her free loading bf. what can i do to receive her out? i live with my mom and pay her rent bacause in old enough but my sister is older.. lzy as FK - excuse my language. My mom raised us my mom has done so much she is a good person but to have a daughter do this to her? what can i do? and if by law she has to say? what does my mom have control over? - i would like to make her life or last month as miserable as possible. like 5 min shower and buy ur possess food wash some where else If i receive the cops involved what would they do if she says my mom has fake papers? will they arest my mom? if you got really good info to help please email me alejandra_marcelino@yahoo.com ohh i work my bf works --- she(sister) lives off welfare $

September 3, 2010 at 2:11 pm | read more

Open Question: What sites are scam free for typing jobs working from home? How much can you make?

September 3, 2010 at 2:09 pm | read more

Open Question: Can I apply for TANF?

I'm seventeen have a two year old son and 30 wks. pregnant I'm home schooled and was working but quit because of my pregnancy. my parents receive food stamps and medicaid for me and my son my boyfriend lost his job and has no social security Can i apply for tanf for me and my son separately from my parents? Will my boyfriend be placed on child support if he's currently not working and has no social? i just want tanf until February which is when i graduate and then i can start working Serious answers only please any help is appreciated! =]

September 3, 2010 at 2:00 pm | read more

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